NEARLY
forty years had passed since the last time Maybole woman Minnie
Gallacher had seen, or even spoken to, her younger brother. So when
the opportunity presented itself, and at the age of 82, Minnie
didn't hesitate to fly to the other side of the world for an
emotional reunion with her wee brother Jim Wilson. The last time
Minnie and Jim, now 80, had been in the same room together, she had
no idea it would be four decades to their next meeting, and that Jim
and his young family would be setting sail for the faraway shores of
Australia that very night.
Minnie explains: "Jim and his family came to our
house in Hicks Avenue for tea and they gave no hint that they were
leaving that night. Jim's two young daughters never even mentioned a
thing. They left without telling anyone, including my elderly
father, who was devastated when he found out." Before emigrating to
the other side of the world, Jim had worked all over the country as
an engineer in the pits, including a stint in the mines in Coalville,
Leicestershire. After leaving Minnie's home that September night all
those years ago, Jim and his wife Molly (Galloway) and family set
sail on their six week journey to a new continent, and a new life.
It was sometime during those weeks on board the ship bound for Oz
that Jim contacted a cousin to tell him where he was going. When
Jim's dad was told the news, he was devastated with shock and hurt,
and father and son were never to speak again. Minnie and the rest of
the family found it hard to understand why Jim would just get up and
leave, but life went on, and the years quickly rolled on.
"I often thought of Jim over the years, but I had no
address or phone number for him so it was impossible to get in
touch. We never got an explanation as to why he just left." It was a
surprise visit in 1999 from one of Jim's four daughters, Louise,
that was to signal the beginning of their journey to meet again.
Minnie's daughter Marion kept in touch with her cousin, and Minnie
began to send Christmas cards to the Wilson family. An invitation to
visit them in Australia followed, but Minnie's husband Davie became
ill and plans were put on hold. Sadly, Davie died in 2000, and all
thoughts of visiting her long-lost brother left her mind as Minnie
grieved for her husband. However, daughter Marion began secretly
plotting behind her mum's back to reunite brother and sister, for
what would probably be the final time. Marion said: "I decided it
was now or never, so I booked tickets to Australia for myself, mum,
my daughter Stephanie and cousin Catherine. I came in and told her
we were going and she didn't know what to say. She was a bit
apprehensive but finally agreed."
So, on December 1st last year, the family boarded a
flight to Queensland which took over 25 hours to complete. Minnie
went on: "I had wanted to see Jim again because his daughter had
said he was very ill and I knew I might never get another chance,
but I was also wondering what I was going to be met with when I
arrived. That was worrying me. It was a shock to see him again after
all those years but he looked better than I had expected." Marion,
who was only a year old when her uncle left, takes up the story:
"The reunion was very emotional, and we were delighted but surprised
that neither Jim or Molly had lost their Maybole accents. I asked
him why he still had his Scottish twang and his eyes lit up as he
thumped his chest and said 'because I'm from Maybole in here'. "All
he spoke about in the five weeks we were there was Maybole. He was
asking about different folk he had known before he had left, and we
had to tell him most of them had passed away. "He said he was sorry
he never came back to Maybole, and if he had returned home, he would
have stayed."
Jim also reminisced about his younger days spent at
the shore with his pals. One of the original infamous Maybole 'Shore
Boys', only Jim and Bobby Paterson remain. For Minnie, there was no
time for recriminations, and she never brought up the subject of Jim
leaving without telling them and never getting in touch again. "We
left the past, in the past," she said. "He was delighted to see me
and he made us very welcome. It was very emotional meeting him again
after all these years, and I didn't want to get upset in front of
everyone, but I shed a few tears when I was on my own, and I think
he did the same." Minnie, Jim and their three brothers were born and
brought up in Maybole's Ladyland Road, and Jim was keen to know if
the family home was still standing, which it is. "
Jim was in the Army," Minnie said, "and he wanted to
know where his medals and his Glengarry bonnet were. I told him they
had been left at our late dad's house, so I didn't know where they
were now, but the strangest thing happened when we got home. I was
going through some old bits and pieces when I came across his
Glengarry, and I am about to post it out to him." Minnie, who was
recently awarded a Scroll of Appreciation from Maybole Community
Council for her contribution to life in the town, is a regular
visitor to her youngest brother Ian's home in Canada, but she wasn't
prepared for the effect a 25 hour flight would have on her. "It
really was a long haul journey, but it was worth it because I was
going to see my brother.
Despite not seeing each other for all those years,
there always was, and always will be a bond between us because we
are brother and sister. I was so relieved and very happy to see him
again after a lifetime apart, and he actually reminded me of our
dad. "The journey was worth it, but I won't be back as it's much too
far. But I'm so glad I've got new memories of my brother." (Article
from the Carrick Gazette. March 2006) |