Fr McGrattan spoke
affectionately of Robert’s involvement with the
church saying he was the longest serving altar
server in Maybole, serving at Mass for many, many
years. “Robert was a great altar server,” he said,
“reverent, precise, organised. “His faith, nurtured
by his family and regular involvement with the
Church, became Robert’s anchor and mainstay through
his entire life and death.
“Robert can
rightly be described as a holy man, yet he was never
aloof from real life or the world. “He was into
everything – and you could meet Robert several times
in one day. If you went to Mass in the morning he’d
be there, if you golfed at Brunston in the afternoon
you’d find him there too, and recently, if you went
to a birthday party in the Speaker’s Club you’d find
him there too as doorman.
“He loved building
up community and being available to the community,
playing his part, and for this he will be sorely
missed by many people. “Robert’s life was extremely
full. He took being “oldest brother” very seriously
and to me and all the priests of the parish Robert
became very attentive, and a good friend.
“The priests and
Bishops who visited always appreciated his welcome
and care – and Fr Jim Hayes, my predecessor, the
priests in the South Ayrshire parishes and the
Bishops have all sent me wishes of condolence and
asked that I pass them on today to Robert’s family.
“Here in this church Robert acted as sacristan,
setting up for Masses, sang in the choir, trained
and helped the young altar servers, came to
meetings, belonged to committees; in fact anything
you asked he was delighted to do, and do well.
“He was ‘in with
the bricks’ here – as a living stone – and
thankfully that will not be forgotten. “In being
reliable, kind, and a mentor, Robert was a father
figure to many. His faith was deep, real, and
magnificent to witness. He put his whole being into
life – he believed God gave him life to use for the
good of his fellow human beings.”
In addition, Fr
McGrattan added, “He enjoyed his pigeons and was
active in the Maybole pigeon society. Tuesday
evenings were reserved for line dancing – which he
did well. “Robert and Christine, who celebrated
their Golden Wedding a few months ago, were great
ballroom dancers – and were the envy of many a
couple who would watch them move round the dance
floor and say they wished they could dance like
Robert and Christine.”
Following his
National Service and subsequent service in Malaya in
the 1950s, Robert played an active role in the Royal
British Legion Scotland. He faithfully attended
meetings of the Maybole branch and took on the role
of Branch Standard Bearer representing the branch at
numerous parades throughout Scotland. Fr McGrattan
added, “Robert was a faithful member, he wore his
insignia with pride, and bore the colours with
meticulous care, entering competitions and
performing highly. “It is fitting that members of
the British Legion local branch, as well as branches
throughout Ayrshire, come to honour him today.
“It has been a
privilege to have Robert as a friend. It has been a
beautiful gift to be able to minister to him as a
priest – he taught me so much on his journey.” The
evening before the funeral, when the coffin was
taken to the church, the local branch of the RBLS
paid tribute to Robert when William Milligan and
Mark McEwan carried the branch colours into the
church and standard bearer insignia were placed on
the coffin.
Councillor Brian Connolly added that
"As a new Chairman I only had the benefit of
Robert's advice for a short time, but his dedication
to the Legion was clear as was the standards he set
and expected from all of us. He was a highly
respected member and will be sadly missed."
Following the
funeral service, the cortege made its way to Maybole
Cemetery where standard bearers of the local branch
and other Ayrshire branches led mourners to the
graveside where, after committal prayers, everyone
was given a poppy to put in the grave. As well as
his church and Legion involvement, Robert was the
chairman of Maybole & District Seniors Forum, a post
he held until his death, and served on the Steering
Group which formed Maybole One Stop Shop.
Robert is survived
by his wife Christine, their sons Robert and James,
and their families. They would like to thank
everyone for their condolences, flowers, cards and
the many kindnesses shown to them. |